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Your Brain Is a Liar. Here's How One Psychiatrist Proved It.

Your Brain Is a Liar. Here's How One Psychiatrist Proved It.

Teaching our minds manners and etiquette.

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
The Self-Awareness Paradox: Why 95% of Us Are Wrong About Ourselves

The Self-Awareness Paradox: Why 95% of Us Are Wrong About Ourselves

You're not as self-aware as you think (and neither am I)

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
The Overlooked Observation That Keeps Us Coming Back

The Overlooked Observation That Keeps Us Coming Back

Bluma Zeigarnik’s framework for designing focus and closure.

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
The Only Manual For Living You'll Ever Need

The Only Manual For Living You'll Ever Need

The Hidden Document I Return to When I Come Undone

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
A Field Guide to Spotting Manipulation in Real Time

A Field Guide to Spotting Manipulation in Real Time

Crib sheet for the road

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
The Easiest People to Control

The Easiest People to Control

Why Smart, Well-Meaning Citizens Still Fall for Dangerous Leaders

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
The Con Artist Convincing Millions To Hack Reality

The Con Artist Convincing Millions To Hack Reality

Millions of people are using mysterious numbers to manifest love, money, and healing — but few really know their backstory.

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
What We Mourn When We Mourn a Celebrity

What We Mourn When We Mourn a Celebrity

On Tom Lehrer, Malcolm-Jamal Warner, and collapsed space.

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
Things I'm loving: 2 books, 1 artist and 1 song.

Things I'm loving: 2 books, 1 artist and 1 song.

What's getting me through

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
On Becoming a Person

On Becoming a Person

Carl Rogers on the painful gap between our true selves and performed selves

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
How to Influence Who You Become—Using Neuroscience

How to Influence Who You Become—Using Neuroscience

Our brains have hidden systems. Here's how to use them...

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
From Puppies to Panic: ASK ME ANYTHING

From Puppies to Panic: ASK ME ANYTHING

Answering readers' questions about mental health!

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern