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The Survival Paradox: How Sexual Violence Hijacks Our Most Ancient Protection System and Why Victims Comfort Their Abusers.
Jan 22, 2025

The Survival Paradox: How Sexual Violence Hijacks Our Most Ancient Protection System and Why Victims Comfort Their Abusers.

On Fawning, in Response to the New York Article about Neil Gaiman

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
The Science of Connection: What Four Decades of Attachment Research Reveals About Our Deepest Human Bonds
Dec 18, 2024

The Science of Connection: What Four Decades of Attachment Research Reveals About Our Deepest Human Bonds

Understanding the Invisible Architecture of Human Attachment

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
How School Kills Wonder: NASA's Forgotten 1968 Study on Education's Silent War Against Creative Genius
Sep 11, 2024

How School Kills Wonder: NASA's Forgotten 1968 Study on Education's Silent War Against Creative Genius

George Land & Sir Ken Robinson on Acting Like a 5 Year Old.

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
BONUS POST: My Lifelong 'Childhood Disorder.'
Aug 25, 2024

BONUS POST: My Lifelong 'Childhood Disorder.'

The Thing That Didn't Leave.

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
Are You Really Free? The Silent Struggle That Might Be Holding You Back
Aug 14, 2024

Are You Really Free? The Silent Struggle That Might Be Holding You Back

Adult Separation Anxiety Disorder

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
The Vigilant Heart: Hypervigilance and Emotional Exhaustion
Feb 21, 2024

The Vigilant Heart: Hypervigilance and Emotional Exhaustion

What neuroscience and attachment theory teach us about the exhausting vigilance that keeps love at bay

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
Are You Suffering From The Invisible Legacy of Childhood Emotional Neglect?
Jan 31, 2024

Are You Suffering From The Invisible Legacy of Childhood Emotional Neglect?

D.W. Winnicott and the Good Enough Mother

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
Mental Health Related Holiday Gifts for EVERYONE of ALL AGES
Dec 20, 2023

Mental Health Related Holiday Gifts for EVERYONE of ALL AGES

A highly curated selection of my favorites.

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
How to Know if You Matter
Nov 01, 2023

How to Know if You Matter

Rosenberg's 5 item Mattering Scale

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
Growing Up Differently Wired
Sep 13, 2023

Growing Up Differently Wired

Debbie Reber and Tilt Parenting

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
TWO YEARS of HOW TO LIVE!
Sep 06, 2023

TWO YEARS of HOW TO LIVE!

On Milestones and the Sad-Happies.

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
Men! Patriarchy is Bad For Your Mental Health.
Jun 28, 2023

Men! Patriarchy is Bad For Your Mental Health.

bell hooks on The Will to Change

Amanda Stern
Amanda Stern
Every Wednesday, author Amanda Stern explores the hidden forces of the mind, unearthing the stories behind what drives us.

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Every Wednesday, author Amanda Stern explores the hidden forces of the mind, unearthing the stories behind what drives us.

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