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Your Brain Is a Liar. Here's How One Psychiatrist Proved It.

Your Brain Is a Liar. Here's How One Psychiatrist Proved It.

Teaching our minds manners and etiquette.

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

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The Overlooked Observation That Keeps Us Coming Back

The Overlooked Observation That Keeps Us Coming Back

Bluma Zeigarnik’s framework for designing focus and closure.

Concepts

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The Social Experiment That Changed How We Understand Ourselves

The Social Experiment That Changed How We Understand Ourselves

Solomon Asch and the unbearable pull of agreement.

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

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On Becoming a Person

On Becoming a Person

Carl Rogers on the painful gap between our true selves and performed selves

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

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Notes & Thoughts: The New York Times 1st Well Festival

Notes & Thoughts: The New York Times 1st Well Festival

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+12

The Hidden Language of Healing: 10 Things Every Great Therapist Knows

The Hidden Language of Healing: 10 Things Every Great Therapist Knows

A primer on what's left unsaid

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

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The Necessary Unknown: The Voynich Manuscript, Winnicott's Third Space, and Why We Need What We Cannot Understand

The Necessary Unknown: The Voynich Manuscript, Winnicott's Third Space, and Why We Need What We Cannot Understand

The cognitive pull of the unsolvable

Concepts

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The Beautiful Trap: How Limerence Warps Perception and Fuels Obsession

The Beautiful Trap: How Limerence Warps Perception and Fuels Obsession

The intrusive and inescapable high that isn't love, at all.

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

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The Survival Paradox: How Sexual Violence Hijacks Our Most Ancient Protection System and Why Victims Comfort Their Abusers.

The Survival Paradox: How Sexual Violence Hijacks Our Most Ancient Protection System and Why Victims Comfort Their Abusers.

On Fawning, in Response to the New York Article about Neil Gaiman

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

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Albert Bandura on Self-Efficacy: The Science of Confidence and the Belief in One’s Potential

Albert Bandura on Self-Efficacy: The Science of Confidence and the Belief in One’s Potential

Why Confidence is a Practice, Not a Trait

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+5

The Science of Connection: What Four Decades of Attachment Research Reveals About Our Deepest Human Bonds

The Science of Connection: What Four Decades of Attachment Research Reveals About Our Deepest Human Bonds

Understanding the Invisible Architecture of Human Attachment

Concepts

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Art as Liberation: How a Viennese Psychiatric Institute Became a Sanctuary for Creativity

Art as Liberation: How a Viennese Psychiatric Institute Became a Sanctuary for Creativity

How The House of Artists at Gugging Became a Model for Psychiatric Reform

Concepts

+7

The Psychology of Catastrophizing: The Hidden Logic of Self-Torment.

The Psychology of Catastrophizing: The Hidden Logic of Self-Torment.

The Second Arrow of Awfulizing

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+10

All in Your Head: Franz Gall, the Fowler Brothers, and the Science That Wasn’t

All in Your Head: Franz Gall, the Fowler Brothers, and the Science That Wasn’t

Phrenology, Franz Gall & The Fowler Brothers

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+5

The Loneliness Cure: Dr. Ruth’s Practical Wisdom for Connection

The Loneliness Cure: Dr. Ruth’s Practical Wisdom for Connection

The Secret of Connection from New York’s Loneliness Ambassador

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

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How a Therapist’s Intuition Led to a Revolutionary Trauma Treatment

How a Therapist’s Intuition Led to a Revolutionary Trauma Treatment

The Story of Brainspotting: David Grand’s Unexpected Discovery

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

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Philippe Petit, Fears of Children and Freud's Home Movies

Philippe Petit, Fears of Children and Freud's Home Movies

Dispatches From the Past

Concepts

+5

One Year Without Therapy

One Year Without Therapy

How it's going

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+5

7 Misbeliefs About What it Means to Be An Adult

7 Misbeliefs About What it Means to Be An Adult

Freeing Yourself from the Myths of Being a Grown Up.

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+9

The Slow-Moving Magic of Psychodynamic Therapy

The Slow-Moving Magic of Psychodynamic Therapy

Quick fixes often create more problems.

Concepts

+4

Anxiety Expert Dr. Chansky's Rules for Ruminators

Anxiety Expert Dr. Chansky's Rules for Ruminators

How to control your thoughts by choosing what to think about

Concepts

+5

Resolving The Unresolvable: The Difference Between Thinking and Ruminating

Resolving The Unresolvable: The Difference Between Thinking and Ruminating

Thinking About Thinking

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+4

What Looks Like a Crush but Feels Like Obsession? Limerence.

What Looks Like a Crush but Feels Like Obsession? Limerence.

Dorothy Tennov on Love and Limerence

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

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When We Think We Can, We Do. When We Think We Can’t, We Don’t.

When We Think We Can, We Do. When We Think We Can’t, We Don’t.

Albert Bandura and Self-Efficacy

Concepts

+3

43 Patients Reveal Their Therapist's Best Advice

43 Patients Reveal Their Therapist's Best Advice

Tell us yours in the comments!

Psychoanalysts and Therapists

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