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Psychoanalysts and Therapists


Peter Levine and the Trembling Cure: On the Body's Buried Intelligence

Peter Levine and the Trembling Cure: On the Body's Buried Intelligence

What a lifetime of research into trauma and instinct reveals about the one place suffering actually lives

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+8

Do You Matter?

Do You Matter?

Five questions that highlight the quality of your connections

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+5

The Most Important Parenting Question You've Never Been Asked

The Most Important Parenting Question You've Never Been Asked

The well-meaning behavior that harms children

Concepts

+4

Why Trying to Feel Safe Never Works: Winnicott on the Fear of Breakdown

Why Trying to Feel Safe Never Works: Winnicott on the Fear of Breakdown

D.W. Winnicott's unsettling theory about the catastrophe you're still waiting for

Concepts

+7

The Invention of Self-Doubt

The Invention of Self-Doubt

Why Our Doubts Say More About the World Than About Us

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+8

Your Brain Is a Liar. Here's How One Psychiatrist Proved It.

Your Brain Is a Liar. Here's How One Psychiatrist Proved It.

Teaching our minds manners and etiquette.

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+9

The Overlooked Observation That Keeps Us Coming Back

The Overlooked Observation That Keeps Us Coming Back

Bluma Zeigarnik’s framework for designing focus and closure.

Concepts

+5

The Social Experiment That Changed How We Understand Ourselves

The Social Experiment That Changed How We Understand Ourselves

Solomon Asch and the unbearable pull of agreement.

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+6

On Becoming a Person

On Becoming a Person

Carl Rogers on the painful gap between our true selves and performed selves

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+6

Notes & Thoughts: The New York Times 1st Well Festival

Notes & Thoughts: The New York Times 1st Well Festival

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+12

The Hidden Language of Healing: 10 Things Every Great Therapist Knows

The Hidden Language of Healing: 10 Things Every Great Therapist Knows

A primer on what's left unsaid

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+7

The Necessary Unknown: The Voynich Manuscript, Winnicott's Third Space, and Why We Need What We Cannot Understand

The Necessary Unknown: The Voynich Manuscript, Winnicott's Third Space, and Why We Need What We Cannot Understand

The cognitive pull of the unsolvable

Concepts

+3

The Beautiful Trap: How Limerence Warps Perception and Fuels Obsession

The Beautiful Trap: How Limerence Warps Perception and Fuels Obsession

The intrusive and inescapable high that isn't love, at all.

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+7

The Survival Paradox: How Sexual Violence Hijacks Our Most Ancient Protection System and Why Victims Comfort Their Abusers.

The Survival Paradox: How Sexual Violence Hijacks Our Most Ancient Protection System and Why Victims Comfort Their Abusers.

On Fawning, in Response to the New York Article about Neil Gaiman

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+8

Albert Bandura on Self-Efficacy: The Science of Confidence and the Belief in One’s Potential

Albert Bandura on Self-Efficacy: The Science of Confidence and the Belief in One’s Potential

Why Confidence is a Practice, Not a Trait

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+5

The Science of Connection: What Four Decades of Attachment Research Reveals About Our Deepest Human Bonds

The Science of Connection: What Four Decades of Attachment Research Reveals About Our Deepest Human Bonds

Understanding the Invisible Architecture of Human Attachment

Concepts

+5

Art as Liberation: How a Viennese Psychiatric Institute Became a Sanctuary for Creativity

Art as Liberation: How a Viennese Psychiatric Institute Became a Sanctuary for Creativity

How The House of Artists at Gugging Became a Model for Psychiatric Reform

Concepts

+7

The Psychology of Catastrophizing: The Hidden Logic of Self-Torment.

The Psychology of Catastrophizing: The Hidden Logic of Self-Torment.

The Second Arrow of Awfulizing

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+10

All in Your Head: Franz Gall, the Fowler Brothers, and the Science That Wasn’t

All in Your Head: Franz Gall, the Fowler Brothers, and the Science That Wasn’t

Phrenology, Franz Gall & The Fowler Brothers

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+5

The Loneliness Cure: Dr. Ruth’s Practical Wisdom for Connection

The Loneliness Cure: Dr. Ruth’s Practical Wisdom for Connection

The Secret of Connection from New York’s Loneliness Ambassador

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+8

How a Therapist’s Intuition Led to a Revolutionary Trauma Treatment

How a Therapist’s Intuition Led to a Revolutionary Trauma Treatment

The Story of Brainspotting: David Grand’s Unexpected Discovery

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+8

Philippe Petit, Fears of Children and Freud's Home Movies

Philippe Petit, Fears of Children and Freud's Home Movies

Dispatches From the Past

Concepts

+5

One Year Without Therapy

One Year Without Therapy

How it's going

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+5

7 Misbeliefs About What it Means to Be An Adult

7 Misbeliefs About What it Means to Be An Adult

Freeing Yourself from the Myths of Being a Grown Up.

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+9

The Slow-Moving Magic of Psychodynamic Therapy

The Slow-Moving Magic of Psychodynamic Therapy

Quick fixes often create more problems.

Concepts

+4

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