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From the 1965 Reader's Digest book: How to Live with Life.
Concepts
+5
Michael Laudor, Carrie Costello, and the Promise America Keeps Breaking
Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors
We are not meant to manage fear alone. These resources have been my village.
Childhood
+7
The well-meaning behavior that harms children
+4
D.W. Winnicott's unsettling theory about the catastrophe you're still waiting for
On Tom Lehrer, Malcolm-Jamal Warner, and collapsed space.
+6
On Fawning, in Response to the New York Article about Neil Gaiman
+8
Understanding the Invisible Architecture of Human Attachment
The Second Arrow of Awfulizing
+10
George Land & Sir Ken Robinson on Acting Like a 5 Year Old.
The Thing That Didn't Leave.
Adult Separation Anxiety Disorder
What neuroscience and attachment theory teach us about the exhausting vigilance that keeps love at bay
A highly curated selection of my favorites.
Rosenberg's 5 item Mattering Scale
Debbie Reber and Tilt Parenting
On Milestones and the Sad-Happies.
+3
The Will to Change
Why we correct what we could embrace
What happens inside us the moment we feel watched, and why no one is immune
How Nature is the Antidote to Loneliness
+1
Mamie Phipps Clark and the Doll Test
The End of Average
What cognitive dissonance, oxytocin, and a 1950s doomsday cult can teach us about why we stay with people who hurt us
That time I told a story at The Moth