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The True Story of My Fake Ex-Husband

The True Story of My Fake Ex-Husband

In the late 1990s, I met a stranger on the subway, and (illegally) married him a few hours later.

Friendship

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Do You Matter?

Do You Matter?

Five questions that highlight the quality of your connections

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+5

If you need this work but can’t pay...

If you need this work but can’t pay...

How to Live's two-for-one model

Resources

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January TL;DR

January TL;DR

Pieces too long? Read this monthly summary!

A Small Library of Comfort for Anxious Times

A Small Library of Comfort for Anxious Times

We are not meant to manage fear alone. These resources have been my village.

Childhood

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Change Your Life Using Design Thinking From IDEO.

Change Your Life Using Design Thinking From IDEO.

What happens when you stop trying to fix yourself—and start prototyping your life instead?

Concepts

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What it Means to be a Self.

What it Means to be a Self.

Where Does the "I" of ME Live?

Concepts

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On the Difference Between Feeling and Emotion

On the Difference Between Feeling and Emotion

How mislabeling our experience is keeping us stuck

Maladaptive Responses & Behaviors

+6

December TL;DR

December TL;DR

Pieces too long? Read this monthly summary!

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