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Hi Friends,

Here’s something about me many of you don’t know: I have published 13 books under three separate names. Two are pseudonyms.

Fiona Rosenbloom, my first pen name, wrote a series of young adult books that came out in 2005 & 2007.

Yesterday, an updated version of the 2005 book was re-released. You can buy a copy of You Are SO Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah! for your favorite tween right now!

Now, onto my favorite topic: THERAPY!

If you haven’t seen the dedicated Therapy issue of the New Yorker, it’s a must-read.

The End of Therapy

Last week was one of the most significant weeks of my adult life.

On Wednesday, July 19th, at 5:15 pm, after 23 years together, I had my last therapy session with my beloved therapist, R.

I started seeing her in 2000.

There were times I took months off, and for the past two years, I’ve seen her only twice a month, but for 23 years, R has been my ride-or-die.

She was the most consistent thing in my life, my longest relationship, and ultimately, a bonus mother.

So why did it end?

To read on and learn why I started therapy, why I stayed in it for over two decades, and how I knew it was time to end, please upgrade.

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